So I wonder if you could possibly projecting your own sense of uncomfortableness (is that a word?!) in the position Doyle has put himself. Is that in any way possible or am I way off base?
No, I think you're absolutely right! That's why I keep saying it's me and my problem, not them, but I suppose I'll keep saying it until someone enlightens me about certain aspects of what went on. As I imply earlier I just can't understand how shoving a large ball into someone's mouth so they can't breathe and are forced to gag has anything to do with sex? Is the effect anything like partial asphyxiation? Drifting on a bit, I don't know if you've read my earlier comment where I've touched on this, I think the consensual part of it is an all-important point but it still doesn't explain to me what sex (or being turned on) has to do with some of the things they did. I just don't get it. Not opposed, just puzzled!
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No, I think you're absolutely right! That's why I keep saying it's me and my problem, not them, but I suppose I'll keep saying it until someone enlightens me about certain aspects of what went on. As I imply earlier I just can't understand how shoving a large ball into someone's mouth so they can't breathe and are forced to gag has anything to do with sex? Is the effect anything like partial asphyxiation? Drifting on a bit, I don't know if you've read my earlier comment where I've touched on this, I think the consensual part of it is an all-important point but it still doesn't explain to me what sex (or being turned on) has to do with some of the things they did. I just don't get it. Not opposed, just puzzled!